tolong ajarkan cara nak senyum..

salam..wah..1st entry ditahun baru..bukan main ek title i..hehe

sekarang selalu dok fikir2 sorang2..aku ni muka masamnyaaaa..bak kata orang muka kelat mcm cuka...walaupun tak pernah rasa cuka mcm mana...org tak kenal sure kata sombong...lagi laa lately mcm2 dalam kepala ni nak di fikirkan.. sampai terlupa mcm mana nak senyum...bila tengok cermin pagi2..cuba dok senyum sorang2..tapi mcm ada yg tak kena...senyum yg dibuat-buat...tak real langsung..i want real smile :)...ikhlas dari hati..

fikir punya fikir...ada beberapa perkara yg buatkan aku tak senyum...or susah nak senyum..
1- ada je nampak salah orang jer..SANGAT teruk ok..my biggest mistake!
2- terlalu byk fikir masalah..tp bukannyaa nak fikir solution...
3- dok marah orang..esp student..
4- byk fikir negative....

Ya Allah teruknya aku...maybe ada byk lagi perkara2 yg tak baik in myself..tapi tak realize..hopefully by knowing my mistake..i'll improve...susah nyaa nak jaga hati kan...doa doa..

and jumpa the few words from blog Dr Prof Muhaya..

Three principles of life.

1. Have

2. Give

3. Get

Have good, give good, get good. So if we get bad, it means that we have given bad and we can only give bad if we have bad inside us. Hence, to have a good life, work at developing goodness in our heart and start giving love and kindness, peace and joy.

and she write something really good on the "Formula for maintaining Good Human Relationship"..

To me every human is a divine being. I treat everyone with utmost respect and be a good finder, not a fault finder. When you meet someone imagine that it is your first and last time to meet the person. Make others like themselves a little bit more and they will like us forever. Say good things to everyone you meet, remember their names and call them their names even if they are general worker.

Be genuinely interested in everyone you meet. Be an interactive listener. Let them talk about themselves. Let your friends excel you do not excel your friend. Always appreciate, acknowledge and do not criticise when you meet a person. Whenever you meet someone always find something nice about them to compliment. Treat others better than you want to be treated. Smile genuinely. Smile with your eyes and your body. Find something good about others and say it out.

by reading this few word...i might say that..when you treat & feel good with others..your smile will come across automatically without being ask to smile..

and please be reminded that Nabi Muhammad saw telah bersabda, "Senyummu di depan saudaramu adalah sedekah." Hadits Riwayat At Tirmidzi dalam sahihnya.

Senyum lah duhai fathiah..